Boyfriend accomidating ex wife???
My boyfriend and i have been together for a year. We live together. I have 2 daughters and he has 4 kids of his own. 2 of them live in Florida with old girlfriend from 20’s and his other two are from ex wife. She lives 20 min away from us and he only sees his kids on the weekends when they come stay with us. We used to share the carpooling… we would pick them up and she would drop them off. Now its us doing most of it and his ex comming up with reasons not to. We cant afford the gas, and what makes me the most agry is that his ex wife gets financial help from her dad… he bought her a house and a car. We dont have the luxury of help like she does so she can afford to do more of the dropping off. My boyfriend thinks i am overreacting but its expensive and i am sick of having to pay for gas all the time because not only do we pick them up but drop them off too. He is too nice and anything she needs it seems that he is willing to financially hurt us to please her. Am i over reacting?
Is there a court order on the visitation and if there is, is it in there who and where the pick up and drop off take place. If not you could go into court and have it added, if you really think its worth it. But you knew that he had children from previous relationships, and if he wants to see his children, he may have to bend over backwards to go get them and take them back. But i wouldn’t let him become to “accommodating” to his ex-wife.
